Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Bisexual - My own story and views.

The only people I've ever been openly gay with are my friends. Never any of my family, save for my stepsister who has become kinda close with me lately...
Whenever I listen to a song in the charts by some rapper, or read posts on Facebook by popular girls and guys in my school, there's always some criticism of gays.

Hell, people criticize me.. a rumor started that I was a Lesbian, due to my unnaturally ugly looks, people said that I wanted girls because boys wouldn't have me...
But, they only know half the story.

I love guys, and would love to get married. Settle down, have children.
But, I also love girls. And, again, I would love to get married, settle down, have children.
But, even that is asking too much. Woman aren't even allowed to get married; they're only allowed a 'Civil partnership' which I think is wrong.
I don't want to walk up to my old friends in years time and say, 'Hey, this is my civil partner', no. If I eventually meet a woman I want to spend my life with, I want to be able to say 'This is my wife'.

I know this is all sounding a little one-sided, more of a lesbian thing than it is all-around bisexual, but let me finish...
I've had crushes on guys. Always have, always will. Hey, I think Jared Leto is the sexiest man alive, but I also think Kanon Wakeshima is incredibly cute. And, I've had boyfriends too, not girlfriends yet, because my current social group is more of a main-stream one, but I hope to meet someone eventually..

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When I hear rumors that guys in my school may be gay, I just shrug. What is wrong with being gay? Why does it have to be the highlight of gossip?
I'm not saying that everyone in the world is homophobic, but my problem with this, is that there are still some people who are.
The fact that there are any homophobic people in society is disgusting.
We're all the same.
Just because man + woman = next generation, doesn't mean it has to be like that.
There are many MANY straight people who never settle down and have children of their own.
So should we harass them too?
No.
Because it is their choice!

Let me narrow down my philosophy for you:

Man + Woman = ^_^

Man + Man = ^_^

Woman + Woman = ^_^

And any other mixing of genders is fine!

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